Foreword

FOREWORD Can you fill the bottle,whose mouth is sealed with water?Probably, you can’t. Like that beforereading this book, open your mind. Thenonly this book can fill your mind. Before starting I want to saysomething. There is an old saying: “We learn better  from experience than study.”  But I believe it is notcompletely true. Both experience and studying haveequal value. Whereas if you can properly followwhat you have studied then, studying is far better than experience.So what should be said is: “Improving yourself through experience or studying is far better than just experiencing or studying and doing nothing.”  But one bitter fact is thatexperience creates pressure on us to improvewhereas studying only make us aware.Here’s an example, a welleducated person knows exercising is beneficial and being overweight is harmful. But also he ignores to do exercise and moreover eats a lot of unhealthyfood. Later in life he may experience diabetes andheart diseases. At that time it will be too much lateand he will have to face “do or die” condition.Hence he will have to exercise and eat healthy dietwillingly or unwillingly.Another example is, manyteenagers don’t hesitate or feel sorry about spendingon unnecessary things, even though their parents tellthem or even though they read in book that it is verydifficult to earn money and money should be saved.But they ignore all these facts. Later, when theystarts to earn money, they experience, how muchdifficult it is to earn money and says the same thingto their children which theirs parents had told them previously. At that time, they are even forced tolimit their necessary or unnecessary expenseotherwise they will not be able to fulfill their other more important responsibility.I think, now you might haveunderstood why the saying: ” We learn better fromexperience than studying” got popular.What I want to say is, itdon’t matter how much you study or experience.The real thing which matters the most is, how muchyou learn from your experience or study and howmuch you apply into your life. But, in this 21 st  century you should give high priority to learn from studying because if you give high priority to learnfrom experience then, you will remain backward.Learning from study or mistake of other is moreeffective, efficient and beneficial than learning byagain repeating that same mistake yourself whichother had done. So, start to make self study a habitand try to learn from everything around you.At last, remember that this book is not a magical book so it doesn’t make you better person over a night. And only studying this book also won’t make you better person. So, be patience and try to learn and apply whatever youstudy into your life.Remember it isn’t a author who makes a book valuable (although author is alsoimportant) but it is you. If you seriously learn andapply whatever you study then any book can bevaluable. For Parents Children are like a piece of glass, if you try to hold it firmly then it willonly hurt you but if you let it gothen it will break in pieces. So,what should you do is, hold itgently and with care.