Chapter: 10
Final Words
I think
after reading previous chapters, you may have learnt many things about
addiction. And I hope you will never get involved in this type of bad things.
After reading chapter 9 you may think
that nothing will happen even if one becomes addicted because there is
solution. But this is just another wrong thing that can pop into your teenage
brain. Do you think it is right to avoid caring of our health thinking that
there are medicines and methods to cure diseases? Certainly, it isn’t.
According
to past trend and past record, one thing you should be clear is that only few
people are able to recover completely for whole life after going to
rehabilitation center whereas many relapses later in life even after being
recovered at rehabilitation center. And some addict people aren’t able to get
rid of addiction even after many tries. Don’t forget that, by being addicted you
have to lose many things in life and many such things can’t be again regained
later.
But my
dear friends who are addict at this present time don’t lose your hope. Just
remember one thing that,”You won’t lose the fight unless you stop fighting.” So, even if you have failed for several times
don’t be sad but keep on trying and trying.
Nick
Vujicic, a motivational speaker once said, “If I fail to do
what I want for 100 times and if I give up at the end due to disappointment and
numerous failures. Then I will never be able to do it for my whole life. But if
I try again and again then someday I will be able to do what I want.” Think like this and stay
positive towards life.
One wrong
thing that occurs in our society is that, the parents try to hide their
children’s addiction towards drugs, alcohol or cigarettes. They regard their
reputation bigger than their children. And again they do another wrong thing,
i.e. they make their children to marry thinking that the marital relation will
bring them in right path. But this will only make problem more severe. This is
like making an innocent person to ride over a mad horse. This will not only
damage the life of their children but also damage the life of another person
who marries with their children. In this type of condition major victim are
girls who marry the addicted boys. So, girls themselves should be aware during
their marriage. If you are a girl, then you should not expect or believe that
your future husband will change after marriage, even though he promises and do
commitment with you to change. Such types of commitments and promises won’t
last longer against addiction. So, make your future husband or partner to
change and leave addictive behaviour before marriage or before establishing any
serious relationship. Think yourself, if he can’t get rid of addiction before
marriage, then how can you expect or believe that he will get rid of it after
marriage.
One of
the teachers of my locality once said, “I don’t care, even if my children don’t
study but they shouldn’t be druggists, alcoholic or smokers. What is the
benefit or worth of studying and getting high grades if they die prematurely
due to addiction and if they are unable to apply whatever they have learnt?”
Isn’t his view true? You’re all property, qualification, social status and
relation can easily fade away if you become addicted. You won’t be able to live
fully.
What my
suggestion is, never ever try such addictive substances even for the first
time. Don’t overestimate yourself and don’t underestimate such addictive
substances. Be addiction free and enjoy your life fully and happily. We are
here to enjoy and live our life fully and happily with dignity not to live with
sadness, sorrow and self hatred
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